Democrats kept warning us that "The future is female." They skipped the part about it being smug, entitled, and completely self-absorbed. Oh, and most likely on anti-depressants.
Every bit of media they've consumed their whole lives has told them that they're very, very special, and that the world would be much better with them in charge. That same media has denigrated men, especially white men. Our decaying culture is the rotten fruit of this propaganda campaign.
Phenomenal writing and research Yuri, so many truths here. And none of it is accidental, the Hidden Hand of Communist manipulation is all over the USA's dysfuntional societies. Telling people it's OK to be fat and ugly is a part of the problem.
"The men at the event, the four women agreed, seemed more interested in the brewery’s board games than in the people in the room, so they spent the night getting to know one another instead."
In fact, playing board games with strangers in a brewpub or coffee shop is a *great* way to get dates! There's a lovely little place in College Park, MD that has produced at least two married couples that I know of personally. The problem ain't the board games and it probably ain't the men either, ladies.
I know close to a dozen women in their late 40's/early 50's who are headed for the longhouse. Not sure how it happened. I guess you wake up one day and the party is over. Happens fast. I don't think any of them intended it to happen. At the risk of confusing correlation/causation, the common thread? They're all unrepentant liberals. Go figure.
i was wondering the same thing. i asked chatgpt and this is it's answer verbatim:
“‘Longhouse’ is internet slang (from dissident or contrarian circles) that uses the metaphor of historical communal longhouses—often matrilineal, consensus-driven, and socially managed—to critique modern culture. It describes a feminized, emotionally governed, conformity-enforcing social order where group norms, moral policing, and soft power dominate, discouraging masculine individualism or open conflict. Popularized by figures like Zero HP Lovecraft, it’s often deployed to mock environments run by social shaming, therapeutic language, or gentle moral nagging (like corporate HR or online discourse), portraying them as extensions of the ‘longhouse’ ethos.”
This will turn around overnight when the fake economy ends, as it will. I knew these women thoroughly forty years ago. I also knew their real counterparts; those who pulled together with the men in doing all the real work of the company while these perennial girls clacked around in heels and tight skirts playing corporate bed games and head games. There is coming a time, and it may be soon, when it will matter more than anything whether you can actually Do something or not. Prepare your children for that, if you have the wit and character to be parenting.
40 to 80 with just cats and box wine is a looong time. 4th generation feminism seems to have destroyed so many women. I believe this is intentional. Pushed by the colleges. Pushed by the culture. So many men have switched off dating and just work their grind. With layoffs because of the economy and the weakening dollar, and the amount of AI replacing human in jobs we are all facing a rough time ahead. Stable couples may survive it best.
The 1st woman shown who is house hunting and is an accountant may see that AI WILL replace her profession. This years college grads (both male and female) are not finding jobs. Saddled with debt and no one hiring. Many of the women shown are 30 or older and the odds of meeting mister right gets harder and having children fades each year. I think all of this is why we are seeing so many women trying jobs traditionally held by working class males such as the fire fighter in the article.
I have gotten a newsletter from The Marine Trades Institute which used to be the Wooden Boat School since 2008. The make up of the classes are mostly women now. But at this time boat building supply and plans companies are closing their doors. People can't afford boats and many people just aren't interested in them. I was in a sailing club from 1999 through 2014 and now many of the members I knew have either gotten too old or died and no young people have replaced them. This all is a bad signal for careers in boat building going forward.
I also have seen people who touted van life on YouTube come to the realization that they were actually homeless. YouTubers present a shiny lifestyle that only works out like that for a small percents of them who gain huge followings - sort of like Only Fans "stars".
"I think all of this is why we are seeing so many women trying jobs traditionally held by working class males such as the fire fighter in the article."
And why those professions are lowering their standards and in this case, endangering the public. (See LA fires earlier this year.)
You took the words out of my mouth. Lowered standards, endangering the public, and increasing operations costs because they need a male firefighter and police officer to shadow and assist the female because of her physical inadequacies and inability to exert dominance and control over perps in the case of police officers.
Probably. In the late 1960s and 70s was the time I would hear "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." That worked out for some, but not many. It was also the time of free love and hippie communes, pregnancies and men who did not stick around and who felt what they were into made them "too important work." I knew three of those communes. One still exists. I had a Holdsworth Record racing bike and a Fish On A Bicycle T-shirt I wore when riding it.
Welcome to the party, girls. Men got there first, basically because of you. The polls Yuri cites I suspect are skewed because so many men have checked out of the whole scene, including polls. Perhaps Gen Z can fix this but the dead weight of prior generations lies heavy on them. As men and women lead increasingly separate lives, the divisions will only increase.
I feel the need to speak up for the apps here. My 23yo daughter took a gap year. One of her goals was to meet someone. She was pretty intentional about who she picked, didn’t hesitate to politely say “no thanks” after a date or two. Met a really nice young man, Christian, fun, kind, adventurous. They seem like a good thing seven months in. But she wasn’t trying to girl-boss her way through life, either. The apps might work although she sure met some duds, too. But hey, I dated a few duds without the help of apps, too, before landing on my husband of 29 happy years and counting.
I met my wife on a dating app. Hope your daughter finds a good husband that way too. If a person uses them the right way, it is possible to find a soulmate but most users (including the ones featured in this article) seem to get paralyzed and depressed from the apps.
Good for your daughter. She was actually using the apps as intended.
Many women don’t take gap years to look for a husband at 23. Just something to mention. Perhaps you want to start a new American tradition to help young women get married?
Haha it wasn’t just for that…she recognized that the gift of a year held a lot of possibilities. She starts grad school in the fall but I do think she used the year well!
Your reply is very instructive. It doesn’t make sense to me that you would laugh off the idea that your daughter perhaps solely took the gap year to find a husband. Finding a husband is very important for any unmarried woman.
Going to grad school is fairly pedestrian and not remarkable these days.
Wishing your daughter the best. May she and her Christian boyfriend of seven months marry soon.
No I’m not at all dismissing the importance of finding a husband. We have four kids, and we’ve definitely shared the importance of marriage. As in, don’t wait around, and don’t fear finding someone “too early.” She was HS class of 2020, and then her college didn’t do a good job handling Covid. She needed a break before PT school. She had a lot of plans for her year and, honestly, she used her time really well. So I’m not dismissing the BF search, but her year wasn’t only that. She’s had a great year and I’m going to miss her! She is moving into her apartment this week.
Unfortunately it feels like technology will continue to blow out this trend. Just wait until the synthetic womb option is available and you don’t even need to carry for 9 months or the Optimus sex robot for incel males.
The problem is not with bearing children as much as it is with raising them. Genetics has still not figured out how to design babies without autism, schizophrenia, or other mental illnesses. Maybe women will become single mothers in their forties with the help of an artificial womb, but that will require getting a healthy child guarantee. Until then, single motherhood will be very risky, and only the unwise will go for it.
People forget how GOD arranged things. HE made men and women each for certain roles. The destroyer who is very sly and clever whispered in ears of how to change and thus destroy humanity. Remember the only good you are to satan is to be used to hurt and destroy GOD'S kingdom.
I saw a story on TV recently about a single woman who chose to have a kid via sperm donor/IVF. She carried this baby for nine months...and it came out a completely different color than her. Turns out the clinic mixed up the embryos, and she had to give the kid up to his actual parents. Now she has to start the process all over again.
Ladies, if the guys at your meetup seem more interested in the board games, why not ask them to play? At least then you can bond and get to know each other by referencing a shared activity, showing who you are in a friendly-competitive context.
Guys, if you fancy a board game and there are female humans in your midst that you came to meet, invite them to join. A lot less pressure and lower stakes than asking them to go out with you.
Sounds a lot more fun and productive than, "So, what do you do?"
Singles Event Hosts are actually supposed to be ice breaking for people; that’s why people go to those events… When I host, I’ll walk around and make sure everyone is mingling, talk to stragglers, and sometimes introduce people… Whoever was hosting this one, wasn’t doing their job; which is a shame, because many of the people there are about to give up hope.
This is what happens when someone is stuck on the illusion that credentials are equal to intelligence or other measures of adulthood and maturity. As time goes on, credentials age like rotten fish. Nobody cares about where you went to school 10 or more years ago, or whether you've got a master's or graduate degree. This all means ZIP. Even political beliefs change as one gains experience and perspective.
None of these women deserve to find a decent guy. Besides, they are looking in all the wrong places.
Democrats kept warning us that "The future is female." They skipped the part about it being smug, entitled, and completely self-absorbed. Oh, and most likely on anti-depressants.
Every bit of media they've consumed their whole lives has told them that they're very, very special, and that the world would be much better with them in charge. That same media has denigrated men, especially white men. Our decaying culture is the rotten fruit of this propaganda campaign.
Girl Power.
Grrrl power.
Phenomenal writing and research Yuri, so many truths here. And none of it is accidental, the Hidden Hand of Communist manipulation is all over the USA's dysfuntional societies. Telling people it's OK to be fat and ugly is a part of the problem.
Yes. Communism, as a wit on the interwebs wrote is political Satanism.
Only women are celebrated for being fat and ugly. See: Sports Illustrated.
"The men at the event, the four women agreed, seemed more interested in the brewery’s board games than in the people in the room, so they spent the night getting to know one another instead."
In fact, playing board games with strangers in a brewpub or coffee shop is a *great* way to get dates! There's a lovely little place in College Park, MD that has produced at least two married couples that I know of personally. The problem ain't the board games and it probably ain't the men either, ladies.
The guys dodged the bullet very well. They didn't participate in the girlboss' "date"(interview)...
I know close to a dozen women in their late 40's/early 50's who are headed for the longhouse. Not sure how it happened. I guess you wake up one day and the party is over. Happens fast. I don't think any of them intended it to happen. At the risk of confusing correlation/causation, the common thread? They're all unrepentant liberals. Go figure.
LinkedIn = LOLOLOLOOOOOOO!
What the hell is a "longhouse," anyway? I keep seeing that term used in the context of these harpies and never understood the meaning.
A society dominated by depressed, passive-aggressive females
AKA “facebook”. 😝
I get it, but what's the significance of the term "longhouse?" Where did that term come from?
i was wondering the same thing. i asked chatgpt and this is it's answer verbatim:
“‘Longhouse’ is internet slang (from dissident or contrarian circles) that uses the metaphor of historical communal longhouses—often matrilineal, consensus-driven, and socially managed—to critique modern culture. It describes a feminized, emotionally governed, conformity-enforcing social order where group norms, moral policing, and soft power dominate, discouraging masculine individualism or open conflict. Popularized by figures like Zero HP Lovecraft, it’s often deployed to mock environments run by social shaming, therapeutic language, or gentle moral nagging (like corporate HR or online discourse), portraying them as extensions of the ‘longhouse’ ethos.”
This will turn around overnight when the fake economy ends, as it will. I knew these women thoroughly forty years ago. I also knew their real counterparts; those who pulled together with the men in doing all the real work of the company while these perennial girls clacked around in heels and tight skirts playing corporate bed games and head games. There is coming a time, and it may be soon, when it will matter more than anything whether you can actually Do something or not. Prepare your children for that, if you have the wit and character to be parenting.
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40 to 80 with just cats and box wine is a looong time. 4th generation feminism seems to have destroyed so many women. I believe this is intentional. Pushed by the colleges. Pushed by the culture. So many men have switched off dating and just work their grind. With layoffs because of the economy and the weakening dollar, and the amount of AI replacing human in jobs we are all facing a rough time ahead. Stable couples may survive it best.
The 1st woman shown who is house hunting and is an accountant may see that AI WILL replace her profession. This years college grads (both male and female) are not finding jobs. Saddled with debt and no one hiring. Many of the women shown are 30 or older and the odds of meeting mister right gets harder and having children fades each year. I think all of this is why we are seeing so many women trying jobs traditionally held by working class males such as the fire fighter in the article.
I have gotten a newsletter from The Marine Trades Institute which used to be the Wooden Boat School since 2008. The make up of the classes are mostly women now. But at this time boat building supply and plans companies are closing their doors. People can't afford boats and many people just aren't interested in them. I was in a sailing club from 1999 through 2014 and now many of the members I knew have either gotten too old or died and no young people have replaced them. This all is a bad signal for careers in boat building going forward.
I also have seen people who touted van life on YouTube come to the realization that they were actually homeless. YouTubers present a shiny lifestyle that only works out like that for a small percents of them who gain huge followings - sort of like Only Fans "stars".
"I think all of this is why we are seeing so many women trying jobs traditionally held by working class males such as the fire fighter in the article."
And why those professions are lowering their standards and in this case, endangering the public. (See LA fires earlier this year.)
You took the words out of my mouth. Lowered standards, endangering the public, and increasing operations costs because they need a male firefighter and police officer to shadow and assist the female because of her physical inadequacies and inability to exert dominance and control over perps in the case of police officers.
It's not just 4th generation feminism. It started with the 1st generation.
Probably. In the late 1960s and 70s was the time I would hear "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." That worked out for some, but not many. It was also the time of free love and hippie communes, pregnancies and men who did not stick around and who felt what they were into made them "too important work." I knew three of those communes. One still exists. I had a Holdsworth Record racing bike and a Fish On A Bicycle T-shirt I wore when riding it.
Welcome to the party, girls. Men got there first, basically because of you. The polls Yuri cites I suspect are skewed because so many men have checked out of the whole scene, including polls. Perhaps Gen Z can fix this but the dead weight of prior generations lies heavy on them. As men and women lead increasingly separate lives, the divisions will only increase.
30% of Gen Z women identify as something other than heterosexual...
I feel the need to speak up for the apps here. My 23yo daughter took a gap year. One of her goals was to meet someone. She was pretty intentional about who she picked, didn’t hesitate to politely say “no thanks” after a date or two. Met a really nice young man, Christian, fun, kind, adventurous. They seem like a good thing seven months in. But she wasn’t trying to girl-boss her way through life, either. The apps might work although she sure met some duds, too. But hey, I dated a few duds without the help of apps, too, before landing on my husband of 29 happy years and counting.
I met my wife on a dating app. Hope your daughter finds a good husband that way too. If a person uses them the right way, it is possible to find a soulmate but most users (including the ones featured in this article) seem to get paralyzed and depressed from the apps.
Yeah honestly blaming the apps sounded like a crutch for them. The tool is only as good as the person using it!
I've resigned myself to dying alone melted into my couch and no one finding me for 3 weeks, but that's ok - I'm enjoying life and having a blast.
The daughter of a friend met her husband through an app. They are both successful young people.
Good for your daughter. She was actually using the apps as intended.
Many women don’t take gap years to look for a husband at 23. Just something to mention. Perhaps you want to start a new American tradition to help young women get married?
Haha it wasn’t just for that…she recognized that the gift of a year held a lot of possibilities. She starts grad school in the fall but I do think she used the year well!
Your reply is very instructive. It doesn’t make sense to me that you would laugh off the idea that your daughter perhaps solely took the gap year to find a husband. Finding a husband is very important for any unmarried woman.
Going to grad school is fairly pedestrian and not remarkable these days.
Wishing your daughter the best. May she and her Christian boyfriend of seven months marry soon.
No I’m not at all dismissing the importance of finding a husband. We have four kids, and we’ve definitely shared the importance of marriage. As in, don’t wait around, and don’t fear finding someone “too early.” She was HS class of 2020, and then her college didn’t do a good job handling Covid. She needed a break before PT school. She had a lot of plans for her year and, honestly, she used her time really well. So I’m not dismissing the BF search, but her year wasn’t only that. She’s had a great year and I’m going to miss her! She is moving into her apartment this week.
Unfortunately it feels like technology will continue to blow out this trend. Just wait until the synthetic womb option is available and you don’t even need to carry for 9 months or the Optimus sex robot for incel males.
The problem is not with bearing children as much as it is with raising them. Genetics has still not figured out how to design babies without autism, schizophrenia, or other mental illnesses. Maybe women will become single mothers in their forties with the help of an artificial womb, but that will require getting a healthy child guarantee. Until then, single motherhood will be very risky, and only the unwise will go for it.
People forget how GOD arranged things. HE made men and women each for certain roles. The destroyer who is very sly and clever whispered in ears of how to change and thus destroy humanity. Remember the only good you are to satan is to be used to hurt and destroy GOD'S kingdom.
Amen and amen!
I saw a story on TV recently about a single woman who chose to have a kid via sperm donor/IVF. She carried this baby for nine months...and it came out a completely different color than her. Turns out the clinic mixed up the embryos, and she had to give the kid up to his actual parents. Now she has to start the process all over again.
Man-man horrors beyond your comprehension indeed.
Ladies, if the guys at your meetup seem more interested in the board games, why not ask them to play? At least then you can bond and get to know each other by referencing a shared activity, showing who you are in a friendly-competitive context.
Guys, if you fancy a board game and there are female humans in your midst that you came to meet, invite them to join. A lot less pressure and lower stakes than asking them to go out with you.
Sounds a lot more fun and productive than, "So, what do you do?"
Singles Event Hosts are actually supposed to be ice breaking for people; that’s why people go to those events… When I host, I’ll walk around and make sure everyone is mingling, talk to stragglers, and sometimes introduce people… Whoever was hosting this one, wasn’t doing their job; which is a shame, because many of the people there are about to give up hope.
Wow, just wow! You're actually suggesting that these royal princesses ASK the men if they can play the board games with them?
Meanwhile, prog women lead the demos in mental illness.
Darwin bats last.
"The future belongs to those who show up for it."
--Vox Day.
It's not exactly vacant possession as it will be contested, but if you're not there you will certainly not win.
There's very little traffic in the extra mile. It will be contested, but not fiercely. Most of the work is in qualifying, not the actual race.
This is what happens when someone is stuck on the illusion that credentials are equal to intelligence or other measures of adulthood and maturity. As time goes on, credentials age like rotten fish. Nobody cares about where you went to school 10 or more years ago, or whether you've got a master's or graduate degree. This all means ZIP. Even political beliefs change as one gains experience and perspective.
None of these women deserve to find a decent guy. Besides, they are looking in all the wrong places.
"... ME ME ME doesn’t work because marriage and motherhood is about sacrifice." is one of the most profound sentences you have written.